How to Create Lasting Change with the Law Of Attraction.One of the qualities of successful minded people, is that they are extremely self-reliant. They accept complete responsibility for themselves and everything that happens to them. They look to themselves as the source of their successes and as the main cause of their problems and difficulties. High achievers say, “If it’s to be, it’s up to me.” When things aren’t moving along as fast as they want, they ask themselves, “What is it in me that is causing this problem?” They refuse to make excuses or to blame people. Instead, they look for ways to overcome obstacles and to make progress. When you decide that your dreams are a must, the brain becomes incredibly accute.
You have to have enough strong compelling reasons to pull you forward toward your goals. You have to feel your dreams and desires daily. The RAS (reticular activating system) in your brain, reviews what you want in your life. You will attract situations in your life. In capitalizing on your strengths, your level of interest, excitement and enthusiasm about the particular job or activity is a key factor. You’ll always do best and make the most money in a field that you really enjoy. It will be an area that you like to think about and talk about and read about and learn about. Successful people love what they do, and they can hardly wait to get to it each day. Doing their work makes them happy, and the happier they are, the more enthusiastically they do it, and the better they do it as well. To achieve everything you are capable of achieving as a person, you also must become a skilled strategic planner with regard to your life and work.
You have to raise your standards. Lasting change is different than a goal. Everybody gets their “musts”,however, look inside yourself and say “no more”. This has to become a part of your identity. You act consistant with you you think you really are.Totally self-responsible people look upon themselves as self-employed. They see themselves as the president of their own personal services corporation. They realize that no matter who signs their paycheck, in the final analysis they work for themselves. Because they have this attitude of self-employment, they take a strategic approach to their work. High achievers say, “If it’s to be, it’s up to me.” When things aren’t moving along as fast as they want, they ask themselves, “What is it in me that is causing this problem?” They refuse to make excuses or to blame people. Instead, they look for ways to overcome obstacles and to make progress. The key to personal strategic planning is concentration on affirmative action. The marketplace pays extraordinary rewards only for extraordinary performance. “What one great thing would you dare to dream if you knew you could not fail?” that the main thing separating her from her hopes and dreams was the belief in her ability to achieve them.
People do not achieve their full potential ,because of our limiting belief system.Most of us are like this for most of our lives. There are many things that we want to be, and have and do, but we hold back. We are unsure because we lack the confidence necessary to step out in faith in the direction of our dreams. Adler, the great psychotherapist, said that men and women have a natural tendency toward feelings of inferiority and inadequacy.
Because we lack confidence, we don’t think we have the ability to do the kind of things that others have done, and in many cases, we don’t even try. Give your all everyday. Be in a peak state. Prepare, believe, and get in a proper state of mind.
Every day you have to demand more of yourself. Who you hang around also is who you become. Lasting self-confidence really comes from a sense of control. When you feel very much in control of yourself and your life, you feel confident enough to do and say the things that are consistent with your highest values. Do not have a settle point in your mind. Actions that do do consistantly, must be a part of of your mindset. Don’t just have the ” I gotta’ pay the bills mindset”, it’s so much more than that. Learn the dynamics of what shapes you. There are two mental laws that are always operating and that determine much of what happens to you in your interactions with people.
The first is the law of attraction, which says that you will inevitably attract into your life people who are very much like you. The second law is the law of correspondence, which says that your outer world of relationships will correspond perfectly, like a mirror image, to your inner world of personality and temperament. We begin to “sell ourselves short” and see all the reasons why something might not be possible for us. Repeating affirmations throughout the day will help keep your thoughts in alignment with your visions and goals. This is a powerful way to change your beliefs, and therefore it will manifest what you want in life.We magnify the difficulties and minimize the opportunities. We become preoccupied with the possible losses we might suffer and the possible criticisms we might endure. Our fears and doubts paralyze us, preventing us from acting boldly. The only real antidote to doubt and worry and fear and all the other negative emotions that sabotage our self-confidence is action. Your conscious mind can hold only one thought at a time, positive or negative. The world can only be grasped by action, not by contemplation… I’ve always enjoyed a quote by MLK: The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy. Act as though it were impossible to fail. So I ask you….What would you dare to dream if you believed in yourself with such deep conviction that you had no fears of failure whatsoever?
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